Choose a Group Because of Curriculum, Stay in a Group Because of Relationships

This week I have been in several meetings looking at ways to develop different kinds of lifegroup opportunities at Abundant Life.  We are looking at some topical studies for men, some new Financial Peace University groups, and a next step from Starting Point called Foundations to name a few.  We are seeking to create as many opportunities as possible.  Why?  Because people often first join a small group because of the Curriculum (or study topic), and they will stay in a group because of Relationships.  The content of a group is important.  It is one of the first questions people ask when looking to join a small group.  The question they are really asking is "Will this experience add value to my life," or "is this group going to help me grow?"  It is one of the first things that draws people to a group.  This is why it's so important for group leaders to have a plan for what they are going to study at the beginning of each season.  It's also one of the reasons why it's important for groups to start at the beginning of the study at the start of each season. However, during the course of the season the relationships that are formed become the glue that will draw group members back the following season.  Spiritual growth in a small group requires both good content and relationships.